Are you holding a grudge? About?
I’m still furious about how I was treated as a kid in my old township, by the other kids, my own damn parents, and the other “adult authority figures.” Now, I’m a success story, well respected in my community, and I started by getting far away from them. I owe them nothing!
John, if you hold a grudge in your heart, no matter how far you move away from them, you will never be at peace and you will never be able to forget those who wronged you. My two pice bit of advice is that you must choose to forget and forgive. It’s very difficult but not impossible. Please believe me. I’ve been there.